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Protecting Your Craft from the Haters

Stand your (sacred) ground

Stepping into the world of magick means embracing a path uniquely yours, one that resonates with your innermost feelings and aspirations. But sometimes, holding on to that personal truth can be challenging, especially when faced with criticism or misunderstanding.

In this article, I want to empower you to stand firm in your beliefs and practices, ensuring that no one’s opinion makes you feel lesser about your craft. Remember, your magickal journey is your own, profoundly personal and worthy of respect.

Embracing Your Craft with Confidence

Strengthening Self-Acceptance

Your magickal practice begins with confidence, deeply rooted in self-acceptance. Recognizing the power and personal significance of your craft is crucial. It’s like finding a secret room in your house filled with treasures that were always yours. Meditating on your intentions and the outcomes of your rituals can help solidify your resolve.

I’ve found that using affirmations can be particularly effective—simple phrases that reinforce the validity and beauty of your path. Repeat to yourself, “My practice is valid, my beliefs are strong,” and feel your conviction grow.

Trusting Your Intuition

Listening to your intuition isn’t just about making decisions on the fly; it’s about forming a deeper connection with your magick. Your intuition is like an internal compass, guiding your practices and helping you choose which spells, rituals, or paths are right for you.

When doubts arise, trust in that inner voice. It has guided you this far and will continue to do so, steering you through the rough patches with a wisdom that’s uniquely yours.

Navigating Criticism and Misunderstanding

Handling Criticism

When criticism comes your way, differentiate between what is constructive and what is merely judgment. Constructive feedback can be a tool for growth, helping you refine your practice.

On the other hand, baseless judgments should be met with a firm boundary, protecting your emotional and spiritual wellbeing. It’s okay to say, “I respect your perspective, but I am content with my practice.” This simple affirmation not only defends your practice but also reinforces your right to choose your path.

Building a Supportive Community

Finding a community of like-minded individuals can significantly buffer the sting of criticism. Whether online or in person, these networks provide an exchange of ideas, support, and often, validation that you’re not alone in your journey. Engaging in forums or local groups can be incredibly uplifting, reminding you that your craft is part of a larger tapestry of diverse practices and beliefs.

Curating a Supportive Online Presence

Social media is a double-edged sword—it can either inspire you or make you doubt your path. It’s crucial to curate your social media feeds to support your magickal journey. Follow accounts that uplift and educate, not those that incite comparison or doubt.

Remember, every practitioner showcases their best moments online, and it’s easy to feel like you’re not doing ‘enough.’ Take everything with a grain of salt and use social media as a tool for connection rather than comparison.

Handling Online Criticism

In the digital age, anonymity can lead to harsh criticism or unwanted advice. When you encounter negativity, reinforce your digital boundaries: you can engage, block, or ignore. Engaging should always be done with caution—think of it as casting a spell of understanding and peace. If that fails, remember, blocking is like setting a protective ward around your digital space.


Never let external voices cloud your personal connection with your craft. Your practice is a reflection of your inner world, a sacred territory that deserves respect and protection.

As you move forward, carry with you the confidence and ethical considerations we’ve discussed, and continue to shape a magickal practice that is as unique and powerful as you are.

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